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💌 Ask Shay - A Safe Place for Your Heart to Be Heard
Some questions are hard to ask out loud. That's why I'm here to help
About me: I am Lashay White, but feel free to call me Shay.
Become the awe-inspiring you was born out of my own heartbreak, hurt, and disappointment. I went through seasons of ignoring, avoiding, unhealthy habits, and blaming God... until I surrendered to the only constant in my life, who showed me nothing but love and forgiveness, even in my pain: Jesus. Through His love and transforming power, I became someone who bears witness to His love and existence. I became the awe-inspiring me... free, at peace, surrendered, healed, whole with a vitality for life.
One piece of advice that I can give you out of my experience is... your feelings are not facts. They are up today and down tomorrow. Extremely inconsistent. You cannot build a solid foundation for your life on emotion, but you can build a solid foundation for your life on the word of God. He is consistent, He is an anchor, He fulfills His promises. You can trust God. Instead of pouring your love into unhealthy relationships; conditional, draining, one-sided... give your all to God. He will provide for you, love you, support you and He wants a relationship with you. Obeying God is what I wish I had done from the very beginning... thankfully His grace is sufficient. You can trust Him with your pain, tears, fears, and uncertainties. If you find yourself in love but the relationship makes you compromise, chase, lose peace and sanity... get into God's presence, seek His will and pray. He will align your life to His purpose and connect you to the right person. God is trustworthy, your emotions are not. He knows the thoughts and intention of every single person... you can trust Him.
My heart broke and God fixed it. Now I write books birthed from my seasons of pain, emotional spirals, tears, fears and uncertainty to help you to find healing. Healing doesn't happen overnight. It takes a continual effort to trust God despite your emotions.
I tried to heal outside of God and things got worse for me. I'm here to tell you that Jesus is the only way to true healing and freedom.... because He did it for me and I know He will do it for you. Have faith. On the other side of heartbreak is a new life and you, becoming the Awe-inspiring You... a you that is free, healed, whole and complete.... at peace, flourishing and prospering in everything that God puts your hands to.
Check out the bookstore to find out more about my writing and books to help with your healing process.
I have written about my personal healing story and journey in the following book links. If you truly want to heal, and you are silently battling heartbreak, I believe my personal story will bless you in your journey to freedom:
Soon It Will Be Past Tense
Journey to Purpose
https://awe-inspiringyou.com/%F0%9F%93%98books
AskShay is here because...
I understand your hurt, and I'm here to help you.
Some thoughts can feel too vulnerable to share with friends. Some heartbreaks can feel confusing, embarrassing, or complicated.
This is your space.
Ask Shay was created for those moments when you just need to ask a friend a question, such as:
“Why do I still miss someone who hurt me?”
“Am I anxious… or just in love?”
“How do I forgive without reopening the door?”
“Is this from God or from my wounds?”
“Why do I push people away when I actually want closeness?”
With faith-centered guidance, I am here to support you as you navigate these questions.
You don’t have to navigate those questions alone.
This is not therapy. This is not judgment. This is not shame. This is the faith-centered guidance you seek, rooted in emotional healing and healing in God’s presence. If you need heartbreak support or guidance, feel free to Ask Shay.
🌿 What Happens After You Submit?
You’ll receive confirmation that your message was received. Selected questions will be answered through blog posts, devotionals, short video teachings, or through an email to you privately. If you prefer, feel free to request an email response. Through this platform, you can 'Ask Shay' for insights on emotional healing and receive faith-centered guidance, especially in times of heartbreak support. Your name and personal information will never be shared; a fictitious name will be used for public responses, and you can submit your questions anonymously. Every submission is read with care and responded to from a place of love. This is a non-judgmental zone.